How to Romance Your Woman
By Guy Russell
There is a secret art to romance, typically only uncovered by men of adventure after many years of fumbling and failure. A dark art really, that is rarely shared once uncovered, just left to be discovered by the next bumbling seeker of knowledge on their own as if it were a ritual initiation into manhood. Well, come my weary traveler, and reap your rewards as I reveal the secrets you seek. I will share with you how to romance the love of your life. I will show you how to romance a woman deserving of your attention.
Being a romantic has nothing to do with masculinity or lack thereof. In fact, it is a strong and virile man who understands and values the love of a good woman. It is also a smart man that will make any and every effort to make his woman feel like the most important and beautiful woman on earth. That one single concept is the foundation of a truly romantic man, and that man will have an incredibly loving, totally devoted, and truly happy woman. Remembering and practicing that one thing alone will produce the happiness every couple hopes for. And it is the man who gets the honor and privilege of making his love feel so important and beautiful.
Romance is not, and never will be about lavish gifts and expensive destinations. The poorest man can have the happiest wife. The commercialization of romance may well be the biggest downfall of the modern world. Women and men alike have become obsessed with the material side of relationships. Who has the biggest ring, or who went to the most exotic place, the desire for a life unreachable for most, and unsustainable for all but 1% of the world. And amazingly that one percent who is capable of sustaining such a lavish life together never stays together; in fact they are the ones who are the least satisfied. The use of material measurements for romance and relationships causes insensitivity if not numbness to the real influences of love and happiness. Any man, no matter his influence or position in society is capable of great romance and providing everything necessary for a lasting and happy relationship. And any real woman deserving of such a life, will find it once she realizes the important things in life can not be bought, borrowed, or stolen.
As stated before, if you want to keep and have the undying love of a woman, you just need to make sure she feels like the most important and beautiful woman in the world. If she is the right woman, this is all that is needed for both of you to have the happiest possible life together. So how does one go about making their partner feel so important and beautiful?
Tell her everyday how beautiful she is, and mean it. Look at her like she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Touch her and hold her so she feels desired and wanted intimately, passionately, and sexually, and in that order. Make sure to do each of these things not only when she is at her best, but when she feels at her worst. A woman is not beautiful because of her clothes or makeup. She is beautiful from the inside all the way out, and is always beautiful. Make it a habit to let her know how beautiful she is every morning. Make that the first thing she hears and feels when she wakes up. Whenever she might not feel at her best are the most important times for you to ensure her how she looks in your eyes. And most of all, whenever she feels there may be prettier women around, make sure it is only her in your eyes.
Do lots of little things every day, every possible chance you have to do so. Whenever you go shopping, read through cards, and if you find something that seems like it is coming from your own heart, get it and give it to her. Write your own cards and notes, and leave them for her wherever she might find them. Send her to work with them in her purse, leave them on her steering wheel, or in her lunch. Text or call her during the day when you are apart to just say hi or I love you. If you have a little extra money, send flowers to her work for no reason from time to time. Do anything possible, anytime possible, to show her that you were thinking of her, and that she is on your mind.
Take time to talk with her, and discuss each others day. Always know what is going on with each other, and you will stay close. The biggest mistake you can make in a relationship is to let distance grow between you. No one should ever know more about your sweetheart than you. Let her know she is the most important thing in your life, and that you are interested in her experiences when away from you. By keeping each other informed and having talk time together, you will keep the relationship healthy, close and happy.
By following these simple and straightforward guidelines, you will begin to create your own romantic ideas. Make the foundation a habit, and the rest will come naturally to you. Keep your woman happy and you will find happiness yourself. Remember that the things we seek most in life are not attainable without first giving it to others. Love like you have never been hurt before, and give everything of yourself. If you are with the right woman, you will get all that and more back in return. Your relationship will be the romantic and passionate one that every couple says they hate, but secretly desire for themselves.
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